[“That girl could have
been any one of us,” said Sangeetha Saini, 44, who took her two teenage
daughters to a candle-filled demonstration on Sunday in Delhi. Women in India “face
harassment in public spaces, streets, on buses,” she said. “We can only tackle
this by becoming Durga,” she added, referring to the female Hindu god who slays
a demon.]
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A candlelight gathering after the cremation on Sunday
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NEW DELHI —
Neha Kaul Mehra says she was only 7 years old the first time she was sexually
harassed. She was walking to a dance class in an affluent neighborhood of New
Delhi when a man confronted her and began openly masturbating.
That episode was far
from the last. Years of verbal and physical sexual affronts left Ms. Mehra, now
29, filled with what she described as “impotent rage.”
Last week, she and
thousands of Indian women like her poured that anger into public
demonstrations, reacting to news of the gang rape of another young woman who
had moved to the city from a small village, with a new life in front of her.
That woman, a 23-year-old
physiotherapy student, died Saturday from internal injuries inflicted with a
metal rod during the rape, which took place on a bus two weeks ago.
In her story and its
brutal ending, many women in the world’s largest democracy say they see themselves.
“That girl could have
been any one of us,” said Sangeetha Saini, 44, who took her two teenage
daughters to a candle-filled demonstration on Sunday in Delhi. Women in India “face
harassment in public spaces, streets, on buses,” she said. “We can only tackle
this by becoming Durga,” she added, referring to the female Hindu god who slays
a demon.
Indian women have made impressive gains in
recent years: maternal mortality rates have dropped, literacy rates
and education levels have risen, and millions of women have joined the
professional classes. But the women at the heart of the protest movement say it
was born of their outraged realization that no matter how accomplished they
become, or how hard they work, women here will never fully take part in the
promise of a new and more prosperous India unless something fundamental about
the culture changes.
Indeed, many women in
India say they are still subject to regular harassment and
assault during the day and are fearful of leaving their homes
alone after dark. Now they are demanding that the government, and a police
force that they say offers women little or no protection, do something about
it.
Ankita Cheerakathil, 20,
a student at St. Stephen’s College who attended a protest on Thursday,
remembered dreading the daily bus ride when she was in high school in the
southern state of Kerala. Before she stepped outside her house, she recalled,
she would scrutinize herself in a mirror, checking to see whether her blouse
was too tight. At the bus stop, inevitably, men would zero in on the
schoolgirls in their uniforms, some as young as 10, to leer and make cracks
filled with sexual innuendo.
“This is not an isolated
incident,” Ms. Cheerakathil said of the death of the New Delhi rape victim.
“This is the story of every Indian woman.”
While the Dec. 16 attack
was extreme in its savagery, gang rapes of women have been happening with
frightening regularity in recent months, particularly in northern India.
Critics say the response from a mostly male police force is often inadequate at
best.
Last week, an
18-year-old woman in Punjab State committed suicide by
drinking poison after being raped by two men and then humiliated by male police
officers, who made her describe her attack in detail several times, then tried to
encourage her to marry one of her rapists. Dozens more gang rapes have been
reported in the states of Haryana, Bihar and Uttar Pradesh in recent months.
The government does not
keep statistics on gang rape, but over all, rapes increased 25 percent from 2006
to 2011. More than 600 rapes were reported in New Delhi alone in 2012. So far,
only one attack has resulted in a conviction.
Sociologists and crime
experts say the attacks are the result of deeply entrenched misogynistic
attitudes and the rising visibility of women, underpinned by long-term
demographic trends in India.
After years of aborting
female fetuses, a practice that is still on the rise in some areas because of a
cultural preference for male children, India has about 15 million “extra” men
between the ages of 15 and 35, the range when men are most likely to commit
crimes. By 2020, those “extra” men will have doubled to 30 million.
“There is a strong
correlation between masculinized sex ratios and higher rates of violent crime
against women,” said Valerie M. Hudson, a co-author of “Bare Branches: The
Security Implications of Asia’s Surplus Male Population.” Men who do not have
wives and families often gather in packs, Ms. Hudson argues, and then commit
more gruesome and violent crimes than they would on their own.
Others point to the
gains that women have made as triggers for an increase in violent crimes.
“Women are rising in society and fighting for equal space, and these crimes are
almost like a backlash,” said Vijay Raghavan, chairman of the Center for
Criminology and Justice at the Tata Institute of Social Sciences in Mumbai. If
poverty and unemployment were the only reason for these crimes, rates would
already be much higher, he said, because both are constants in India.
In India’s conservative
society, male sexual aggression is portrayed in unexpected ways. In Bollywood
films, kissing on screen is still rare and nudity forbidden. But the rape scene
has been a staple of movies for decades. And depictions of harassment often
have an innocent woman resisting nobly, but eventually succumbing to the male
hero. One commonly used term for sexual harassment is “eve-teasing,” which
critics say implies the act is gentle and harmless.
The New Delhi rape
victim, whose funeral was held on Sunday, and whose name had not been revealed,
was from a small village in Uttar Pradesh, India’s most populous state. Her
journey to Delhi was the same that thousands of young women make every year to
big cities around the country, in search of a better education and opportunities
than their parents had. “My brother’s entire salary was spent on educating his
children so that their aspirations were fulfilled,” the woman’s uncle told the newspaper The Hindu.
In South Delhi, hundreds
of students from Jawaharlal Nehru University organized a silent march from
their campus to Munirka, the bus stop where the rape victim was picked up,
after her death became public on Saturday. The crowd of protesters trudged along
a busy road, a few holding hastily made placards with phrases like “You are an
inspiration to us all.”
“There’s a movement that
has been built out of this,” said Ruchira Sen, 25, a student of economics on
the march to Munirka. “We are going to do everything it takes to make it last,”
she said.
Students and activist
groups have presented a list of demands to the government, including the
fast-tracking of rape cases through India’s courts and improved training for
the police.
Part of the policing
problem is that less than 4 percent of India’s overall force is female, said
Suman Nalwa, head of Delhi’s special unit for women, in an interview.
She said she was working to improve police response to sexual assault.
“Earlier, women didn’t
leave their homes, so there was no crime,” Ms. Nalwa said. “We are doing our
best, but, of course, there is a lot more to be done.”
Like many who attended
these protests and rallies, Ms. Mehra had been urged to go by her mother, who
she said had given this reason: “Because I don’t want my granddaughter to face
this.”
Men have also been a
large presence at the protests, though not always a positive one. After the
large central Delhi protests on Dec. 22 and 23, the police received 42
complaints from women about men’s behavior there, said a senior police officer
who spoke on the condition of anonymity because the information was not public.
He balked at describing the actions as “harassment” or “molestation,” saying
that implied aggravated or sustained behavior. Instead, he said, the men were
merely “eve-teasing.”
Reporting was contributed by Malavika Vyawahare,
Anjani Trivedi, Niharika Mandhana and Saritha Rai.
